Unforgiveness is a serious sin. I'll come back to that in a moment.
I have just finished reading John Macarthur's book on forgiveness, along with several appendixes and sermons on the subject by Charles Spurgeon and Alexander MacLaren. Over the past month, God has brought conviction and renewal as I've learned to surrender this "holdout" in my heart to His Lordship. For many years, I have justified holding on to a "right" to being unforgiving because the abuser never repented (even when confronted). In a sense, I have been held prisoner to this un-Christlike bondage in my own heart. I am not naive enough to think this struggle will never pop up again in my totally depraved heart, but God in His infinite patience has given me a clarity of thought and heartfelt motivation to obey Him completely in this area through the counsel of a godly woman and writings such as Macarthur's book.
This will not be a typical book review, as I'd like to get into some of the topics Macarthur brings up in a bit more depth and compare/contrast his views to what other Bible teachers have to say. As always, our ultimate authority is to be the Scripture, and fortunately hermeneutics is an area in which Macarthur excells. Most applicable to any discussion on biblical forgiveness is the Synthetic Principle - reminding us that Scripture must always be interpreted in light of other Scripture. This point is key when discussing a matter such as forgiveness, as cherry-picking verses from here and there can give us a skewed view of God's will. The Grammatical and Literal Principles become non-issues here: Christ
literally wants us to forgive. He answered the question of who our "neighbor" is; the term "enemy" needs little elaboration.
The Historical Principle is largely irrelevant also, as unforgiveness and the human desire for vengeance is an age-old scourge - as much a part of our fleshly nature as it was 2,000 years ago. The Practical Principal is the one we will need to look at in the most detail, after laying the groundwork for the basis on which we have been forgiven. This will probably comprise several posts, as I'd really like to dig in and transparently share what God's been teaching me in this area. Once the posts pass the 2,000 woord mark, eyes start to glaze over!
In the first chapter, Macarthur lays out the truths of God's mercy and justice as great virtues, and how through the Atonement both are satisfied. This is presumably not new to his readers, but it is impossible to get an accurate view of
just how much we've been forgiven without looking at divine redemption. As Jerry Bridges writes elsewhere, 'sin is cosmic treason' and we are accountable to a thrice-holy God. Unable to seek God on our own initiative, God initiates and obtains the sinner's reconciliation, while extending the offer to all. Admitedly, Macarthur is more staunchly Calvinist than I (try as I might, I cannot become a true 5-pointer; it seems somewhat unbalanced to emphasize Romans 8:30 to the expense of Acts 2:2, John 5:40 and 2 Peter 3:9). It was very tempting to get caught up in the mental gymnastics of monergism vs. synergism once again, but the best explanation I've heard so far is that it is a mystery how our will works within the confines of God's sovereignity. He elects and calls and does all of the saving; we are responsible for our own response and repentance. He gets all the glory, as repentance is a gift freely given anyway.
God has laid out very specific commands to His children in His Word, and understanding the nuances of Limited Atonement, fortunately, isn't one of them. However, if we accept so great a salvation as fact,
talking doctrine will get us nowhere in a hurry.
Applying it (namely, forgiving as we've been forgiven) is a must. And NO, I'm not saying sound doctrine doesn't matter - it's crucial. But the main reason it is so important that we be doctrinally sound is so we can BE the salt and light God requires, from a heart that is pure, undeceived, and fully devoted to following Christ.
1 Peter 2:24 reminds us that God has redeemed us in order that we may live righteously. In view of this, and in light of the substitutionary atonement (
linger at the Cross), unforgiveness = extreme ingratitude. My words; not Macarthur's. In fact, I will probably quote him extensively as I write this series, but mostly the impressions God laid on my heart were insights into the deeper application of the truth he lays out. After discussing imputation (God put Christ's righteousness to our credit), he states: "That means our forgiveness is not dependent on some prior moral reform on our part. Every believer is forgiven immediately, just like the thief on the Cross. No works of penance are necessary, no meritorious rituals. Forgiveness costs us nothing, because it already cost Christ everything."
He then goes on to explain how a true conversion will inevitably result in a changed life, as we are conformed to the image of Christ. The Bible makes no allowance for what's sometimes called "cheap grace", although naturally we still fall and require constant forgiveness. He discusses the need for ongoing forgiveness in light of 1 John 1:9 onward, .tThe difference between
judicial forgiveness (when we come to God for salvation) and
parental forgiveness (restoration of fellowship, the "foot washing" Christ discussed at the Last Supper) and the fact that God does discipline and even punish His children in love. The difference between God's wrath and fatherly displeasure should be apparent to the born-again believer, so I won't spend extra space on it.
“As Christians, we should be obsessed with forgiveness, not vengeance.” After making the case for how much and how unilaterally God has forgiven us, Macarthur makes this striking statement. Looking at the whole of Scripture - not just the New Testament - we see that it is better to suffer a wrong for righteousness' sake, not take offense, and be quick to forgive. Why? Because it is a reflection of the very heart of Christ, Who is One with the Father.
“Whereas Abel’s blood (and the blood of other martyrs) screams for vengeance, Christ’s blood pleads for mercy.”
Forgiveness is not a feeling – it is a deliberate choice that runs counter to our bitter feelings, which tell us to dwell on an offense. Tomorrow I want to discuss when forgiveness should be instantaneous and unilateral, in what sense it applies to unbelievers, and what Matthew 18 and Luke 17 mean. Stay tuned.
1 comment:
Excellent post Marie.
I wish I had more time to read and if I did, I'd dive headlong into MacArthur's considerable output of writings.
I have his NKJV study bible and read it daily.
I meditate on forgiveness all the time. I've been through some persecution as you know and it's been an issue for me, but I've come to some conclusions through practicing it so much.
Beyond being obedient, or being painfully aware of the huge debt that was forgiven me by God, I've learned that forgiveness can be done for purely selfish reasons.
To be free of anger, simply to be free of it, for yourself.
I seek the praise of my Father above all things, but that freedom is the cherry on top!
Looking forward to the rest of your review.
Very well written by the way. :)
Baruch HaShem,
Dani' El
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